Sepertinya... aku berubah.
Jadi lebih santai, mungkin.
Jadi lebih tinggi? Kayaknya tetep tuh.
Jadi lebih apa ya...
Yang jelas, jadi lebih rajin buat nulis blog. Hahaha *ga penting banget sih*

Next, masih dalam 'sintaks' yg sama~

Sepertinya sekarang aku menjadi lebih nekad. Lebih nekad dalam mengambil keputusan. Aku tau dan mengeti kalau keputusan yang diambil tergesa-gesa itu tidak semuanya baik. Tapi yang namanya keputusan, mau tidak mau kita harus konsisten. Harus memilih untuk menyerah atau berjuang sepenuhnya. Dengan kata lain, bertanggung jawab atau lari dari tanggung jawab itu. Jangan setengah-setengah, karena kalau dijalani setengah-setengah nantinya akan membuat kita menyesal.
Dan aku sendiri sudah memilih untuk bertanggung jawab. Aku akan tetap konsisten dengan pilihanku, meski tetap saja aku merasa takut akan akhir yang harus kuhadapi kelak.
Eotokhe?

Sepertinya juga aku menjadi makin sibuk. Kesibukan yang ambigu. Secara harafiah, aku punya banyak sekali hal yang harus dikerjakan. Tapi apa yang terjadi? Dengan dalih deadline yang masih lama, kewajiban-kewajibanku itu kusingkirkan sementara hingga akhirnya deadline mendekat dan mau tak mau aku harus lembur menyelesaikannya. Hahaha. Parah sekali kadar kemalasanku.
Sama seperti sekarang. Aku masih punya banyak tugas: belajar flash untuk membuat proyek, mempelajari Database Security untuk presentasi kelompok minggu depan *tapi kelompokku belum dikoordinir sih*, membuat beberapa tugas OFC *yang satu deadline jumat ini, satunya lagi deadline senin depan*, membuat soal-soal training, membereskan kamar, meja komputer, merapikan semuanya, dan lain-lain. Hiks. Males bangettttt T_______T

Ah, lagi-lagi aku merasa deja vu. Deja vu atas ketikanku yang di atas.

Oh iya, sekarang aku sedang menyukai lagu-lagu 4 Men, vocal group dari Korea yang genre lagunya ballad-jazz atau apapunlah namanya. Lagu-lagu lainnya juga, seperti lagunya Jewelry - Love Story *karena liriknya bagus*, seluruh isi mini album Kara - Lupin, albumnya Bright, etc.
Music is my life~! *jd inget judul lagunya SG Wannabe*

Okelah, sepertinya postingan random ini bener2 ga penting. Makin lama bahasa yang kugunakan makin tidak konsisten T________T. Maklum, otak lagi eror. Hahaha.

It's over again, see you!
Jaa, mata ne!

Aku dan dunia menulis. Dunia menulis dan aku.
Pada awalnya, jujur, aku sama sekali tidak suka menulis.
Waktu masih sekolah, tiap kali disuruh mengarang pasti aku akan mengeluh. Aku sama sekali payah dalam menulis.

Titik balik terjadi ketika aku punya internet pribadi di rumah, yakni sejak aku kuliah di Jakarta. Dengan alasan kuliah, aku pun memasang internet.
Dari situ, aku mulai sering menjelajah dunia maya. Membuka web, forum, donlot, dll.
Salah satu forum yang kubuka adalah forum 'lautan hijau' yang tidak akan kusebutkan namanya. *ga dibayar loyalti sih :P*
Nah, disana entah bagaimana aku masuk ke bagian FanFic. Singkatan dari FanFiction. Karya-karya fiksi yang melibatkan tokoh atau latar belakang cerita yang sudah ada, baik dari film, buku atau artis.
Disanalah aku mulai mengenal dunia menulis. Dari awalnya hanya membaca, sampai akhirnya aku memiliki hasrat yang kuat untuk membuat karyaku sendiri.
Sekitar bulan oktober 2008, karya pertama dan keduaku mulai ditulis. Hasilnya bisa dilihat di bog fic-ku di storiesoffantasy.blogspot.com, judulnya adalah Close to You dan If.

Seperti yang kuduga, dua karya perdanaku itu cukup disukai orang-orang.
Dari situ, aku mulai bisa lebih gampang menulis. Seringkali saat sedang stres akan ujian atau tugas, aku malah punya ide menulis dan dengan penuh semangat kutulis sampai selesai.
Aku mengambil ide-ide karyaku itu dari imajinasi. Imajinasi yang terbentuk dari pengetahuan akan cerita-cerita romance yang sering kubaca dari komik.

Sampai saat ini, total ada 14 judul yang kubuat. 9 di antaranya sudah tamat, sedangkan sisanya menunggak tak tamat2 juga :D
Semua karyaku bergenre romance, ada pula yang diberi sentuhan dark atau fantasi.
Aku telah mencoba membuat karya dengan genre lain, tapi tidak bisa. Fic fantasi tetap saja ada romance-nya. Fic dark pun tetap saja ada romancenya. Hahaha. Tak bisa lepas dari romance, eh?

Sejauh ini, salah satu tulisanku yang benar-benar berkesan adalah "Broken Mind". Fic pendek 2400 kata ini kubuat dalam waktu 3 jam, dari jam 1 pagi sampai jam 4 pagi. Ide ceritanya sendiri hampir semuanya based on true story. Fic ini mengisahkan tentang seorang gadis yang bisa dibilang sedikit psycho. Ia memiliki keinginan aneh untuk dirawat di rumah sakit. Padahal ia sendiri tidak suka sakit. Haha. Benar2 aneh. Cerita selanjutnya baca di blog saja ya :P

Satu hal penting tentang kaitan diriku dan karya-karyaku, aku tidak terlalu pandai membuat karakter seseorang. Jadi bila kau membaca semua tulisanku, bisa jadi kau menyadari kalau karakter tokoh yang kuciptakan hampir semuanya sama.
Karakter perempuan berdasarkan diriku sendiri, sedangkan karakter laki-lakinya berdasarkan imajinasiku. Harapanku atas laki-laki yang akan menjadi pasanganku. Haha.
Tapi pengecualian untuk beberapa tulisan yang kubuat untuk temanku ya :D
*yg tokoh perempuannya berkarakter sama denganku pasti yg namanya 'park aerin'*

Namun sekarang dunia menulis sudah perlahan-lahan kujauhi. Selain aku tidak lagi memiliki waktu untuk menulis, tapi juga karena aku sudah tidak bisa lagi berimajinasi tentang romance. Semua khayalan romance yang ada di setiap fic romance bagiku hanya seperti cerita cinderela. Hanya untuk memuaskan keinginan pembaca. Cinderela yang di akhir cerita menikah dengan pangeran dan hidup bahagia. Apa ada bukti kalau mereka memang hidup bahagia? Hidup bahagia selamanya bagiku hanya "bullsh*t". Tidak akan pernah ada sesorang yang memiliki hidup bahagia selamanya. Begitu pula Cinderela dan pangeran. Mungkin saja mereka bertengkar, bercerai, tidak punya anak, terkena musibah atau apapun yang mengusik 'kebahagiaan' mereka.
Do you agree?

Bayangan angan-angan akan dunia romance yang indah jugalah yang membuatku terjatuh di lubang yang amat dalam. Tidak ada yang tahu dan sadar bahwa aku sudah jatuh sedalam ini. Aku sudah mencoba bermacam-macam cara untuk keluar. Berteriak, mencoba memanjat, apapun. Namun hasilnya nihil. Is there someone who's willing to save me?

Bagiku, tahun ke 20 kehidupanku ini benar2 menjadi titik balik. Semua masalah seperti badai, datang menerpa tanpa peduli nasib korbannya. Huft.

Ah, sepertinya tulisanku mulai tidak fokus lagi. Seperti biasa :P Awalnya nulis apa, endingnya nulis apa. Hahaha.
Jadi kuakhiri dulu tulisanku sampai sini.
Masih banyak hal yang harus kukerjakan. Dari mengetik tulisan evaluasi interview, menganalisa web harvest yang menjadi bencana besar bagiku, sampai ingin rasanya memainkan kembali game-game di komputerku untuk melepas stres. Tapi sepertinya semua itu tidak akan selesai mengingat mataku sudah terlalu diforsir terbuka karena semalam aku tidur jam 2 subuh XD

It's over now. See you later! Jaa, mata ne!

Aku punya sebuah cerita.
Ini hanyalah cerita fiksi yang ditulis instan oleh seorang penulis cerita fiksi yang tak mampu lagi menulis fiksi.


Ada seorang perempuan dan seorang laki-laki. Keduanya berteman dekat, tak lancang melebihi garis batas masing-masing.
Suatu waktu, si perempuan mulai menggelitik garis itu. Namun ia tak berani lebih jauh karena garis si laki-laki lebih tebal meskipun terlihat kabur.
Lalu titik balik terjadi. Si laki-laki memutuskan untuk mencapai cita-citanya. Dan ia menanyakan pendapat si perempuan.
Si perempuan berpikir keras. Ia tidak tahu harus menjawab apa. Karena ia tahu dan sadar, langkah yang akan diambil si laki-laki akan merebut sahabat terbaiknya itu..
Namun akhirnya si perempuan berhasil berpikir jernih. Ia tak mau egois dan menghalangi masa depan orang lain. Dan ia pun memberikan dukungan.

Waktu berlalu, keduanya makin terasa jauh satu sama lain. Kekhawatiran si perempuan benar-benar terjadi. Berulang kali ia memendam keinginannya untuk menyapa si laki-laki karena ia tidak mau mengganggunya.
Namun apa yang terjadi? Timbunan rasa rindu itu semakin merusak garis yang sudah rentan. Kini ia benar-benar tidak tahan lagi, diterjang egoisme tak terbendung sehingga akhirnya si perempuan memutuskan garis itu dan berhadapan langsung dengan garis si laki-laki yang semakin rimbun namun berkabut.
Bagian selanjutnya dapat ditebak. Si laki-laki mengurangi kabut yang ada dan terlihatlah garis tebal itu.
Si perempuan terhenyak. Kini ia sadar bahwa ia sudah kelewatan. Namun apa daya, nasi sudah menjadi bubur.
Si perempuan kembali mundur dan mencoba membenahi garisnya sendiri. Dari balik garis itu, seringkali ia mengintai diam-diam, menatap penuh harap ke garis seberang, berharap garis itu kembali menipis seperti sedia kala.
Akhirnya kedua garis itu kembali ke kondisi semula, meski masing-masing telah memperkuat tamengnya.

Waktu kembali berlalu. Tawaran itu pun tiba. Si perempuan dihadapkan pada sesuatu. Sesuatu yang menjadi impian si laki-laki. Sesungguhnya si perempuan tidak pernah suka dengan jalan itu. Namun entah bagaimana kini si perempuan mengikuti jejak si laki-laki. Ia sendiri tidak tahu alasannya. Apa itu untuk masa depannya sendiri? Sepertinya tidak. Apakah ia melakukan itu karena ingin menantang rivalnya itu? Mungkin.

Sungguh perempuan yang bodoh..

[Micky]
Nakitai toki wa nakeba ii kara
Nee muri wa shinaide
Namida karetara egao ga hiraku
Hora, mou waraatteru

[xiah]
Tomadou no wa mirai ga aru kara
Mabushisa ni makenai yuuki ga hoshii

[JJ]
Everyday and night with you
Chiisana kimi no te wo nigirishimeru kara
Everyday Everynight Everywhere
Tsunagaru kanshoku wo zutto tashikame yo
Ima monogatari wa begin

[yunho]
Hitomi sorashite saketeru tsumori
Demo boku wa suki da yo
Hanarete ite mo wakachi au mono
Sou omoi ga areba

[xiah]
Kinou ni mada sayonara iezu ni
Kusubutteru jikan wa munashii dake sa

[JJ]
Everyday and night with you
Samenai binetsu dake mote amashi nagara
Everyday Everynight Everywhere
Futari no kankaku wo motto kasaneyou
Ima kimi to boku wa begin

[max]
Hontou wa boku mo onaji da yo
(Baby I need your love need your touch
Oh Baby I need your love need your touch baby)
Yoru no yami ni obieteru
(you tell me now)
Demo hitori ja nai

[JJ]
Everyday and night with you
Furueru kimi no te wo nigirishimeru kara
Everyday Everynight Everywhere
Tsunagaru kanshoku wo zutto tashikame yo
Ima monogatari wa begin

Everyday and night with you
Samenai binetsu dake mote amashi nagara
Everyday Everynight Everywhere
Futari no unmei wo sotto kasaneyou
Ima futari dake de begin

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TRANSLATION

[Micky]
It's okay if you cry when you want to,
It's not unreasonable.
When a tear dries, a smile lights up your face.
Look, you are already laughing.

[Junsu]
The future is confusing
But I won't lose to its brilliance, I want to have courage

[Jaejoong]
Every day and night with you,
I hold your small hand tightly
Every day every night everywhere,
Let's always make sure our feelings are connected
Now, let the story begin.

[Yunho]
You avert your eyes... do you plan to avoid me?
But I like you
Even when we are separated, we can share something
Yes... if we have these feelings.

[Junsu]
I can't say "goodbye" to yesterday yet
This smoldering time is just lifeless...

[JaeJoong]
Every day and night with you,
I just don't know what to do with this ceaseless fever
Every day every night everywhere,
Let's gather up our feelings more and more
Now, you and I begin

[Changmin]
You're really just like me
(Baby I need your love, need your touch)
(Baby I need your love, need your touch, baby)
Scared of the darkness of the night
(You tell me now)
But you're not alone.

[JaeJoong]
Every day and night with you,
I take your quivering hand and hold it tight
Every day every night everywhere,
Let's always make sure our feelings are connected
Now, let the story begin.

Every day and night with you,
I just don't know what to do with this ceaseless fever
Every day every night everywhere,
We'll gently overlap our destinies
Now, just the two of us begin

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Note: This is one of my TVXQ's favorite ballad song :)
Download link: HERE

Annyeong~ yasashiburi minna-san... genki desu ka? *campur-aduk.co.kr.jp*

Ya, akhirnya pemilik blog ini kembali menemukan waktu untuk menulis lagi, setelah... sekitar 2 bulan lebih ditinggalkan. Sungguh blog yang malang. *ga nyadar dirinyalah pelaku sesungguhnya*

Hmm... 2 bulan ya... waktu yang bisa dibilang lama, bisa dibilang singkat.
Terasa singkat karena tanpa terasa 2 bulan telah berlalu, sejak UTS semester 3... dan sekarang UAS semester 3 sudah di depan mata. *haha, kyknya gw cuma nulis deket2 ujian doang :P*
Dan tanpa terasa, masa2 berada di kelas PIT ini sudah akan berakhir. Gw masih inget, gmn rasanya pas pertama kali tau kalo kelas yg gw tempati skrg adalah kelas yang... ehem, kumpulan anak2 per-IP tinggi. Dan gimana rasanya ketika pertama kali masuk ke kelas 321 untuk kuliah Bahasa Inggris di hari senin jam 7.20 - 09.00
Begitu buka pintu kelas... WHUSHH langsung kerasa angin super adem~ trus gw perhatiin orang2 yg di dalamnya... Gw jadi ragu. Salah masuk kelas g sih??
Jadi gw balik lagi keluar kelas, nunggu. Sampai akhrnya ada temen yg gw kenal dateng, trus gw masuk ke kelas buat taruh tas trus keluar lagi. Ga tahan sama dinginnya udara di kelas *baca: aura2 yang memancar dari anak2 di kelas*
LOL.

Banyak sekali hal yang sudah terjadi selama 2 bulan ini. Sangat banyak.
Kemarin, berawal dari obrolan di plurk, gw jadi tertarik untuk review history YM. Bersamaan dengan itu, semua kenangan kembali berputar...
Senyum, tawa, sampai sedih gw rasakan pas baca ulang.
Kalo YM di komputer gw ga salah, semuanya berawal sejak oktober. hmm, cukup singkat juga ya.
October, we're just classmate.
November, we've been stepped into a new world together.
December, we're closer.
January, only us who know what is actually happened.
In the end, I've realized that it has been founded ^^

Okay, let's change the topic.
Sekarang sudah mau akhir semester, artinya masa mentoring gw selama 1 semester pun berakhir.
Gw bakal sedikit cerita tentang mentee2 yang gw dapet selama 1 semester lalu. Sebagai orang lama, gw dapet 6 mentee. 4 di antaranya 1 kelas sedangkan 2 lainnya berada di kelas yang berbeda.
2 cewek, 4 cowok. Ya, jumlah yang cukup signifikan. Tapi ini masih tergolong bagus karena jumlah cewek di jurusan gw tergolong sedikit.
Meski dapet jumlah yg tergolong banyak, tapi gw cukup bersyukur karena mentee2 gw termasuk 'oke' dalam artian pas pertama kali kelompoknya diumumin mereka langsung contact gw semua. Padahal banyak banget kelompok2 lain yang mengalami nasib yg parah. Balik2 lagi ke masalah konsistensi. Kalo emang udah konsisten dari awal pendaftaran, pastinya mereka bisa lancar dari awal kyk gw.
Okelah, sekarang gw cuma bisa berharap mentee2 gw mendapat cukup ilmu dari gw. Tadinya sempet kepikir buat minta evaluasi penilaian ttg gw pada mereka, tapi kelupaan ==" Ya udahlah, semoga buat semester depan gw ga lupa lagi. Kan penting banget buat tau gmn penilaian mentee2 terhadap mentornya masing2. Apa cara mengajarnya udah cukup baik atau belum.
Yea~ let it flow aja deh~~

Hmmmmmm apa lagi ya yg mau gw ceritain?
Rasa2nya tadi udah kesusun banyak di otak... tapi begitu ketikan ini terinterupsi oleh hal2 lain jadinya lupa semua deh.
Baiklah, dengan demikian, disudahi dulu postingan kali ini. Pikiran gw makin lama makin ga fokus aja. Hehe.
Setelah ini, seharusnya tidak lama lagi akan ada postingan lainnya.
See you later!

>>written on Jan 25th, 8.59 - 10.43 PM
Tadinya mau dipost tgl 17 Feb tapi karena suatu alasan jadinya dipost sekarang.

Beberapa waktu yg lalu, pas gw lagi buka live feed di facebook, ada salah 1 temen gw yang baru aja post note tentang "99 Facts About Guys that Girls Should Know".
It looks interesting, so I take a read :D

1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. they prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys hate other flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.
5. Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking! but do not generalize
13. Guys cry!!!
14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands……
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow”.
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays!
25. Guys love their moms.
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It’s good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice…….very true.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!……very true.
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed P**** with their girlfriends…
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”
59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him….very important.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and football, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake. ….they love u regardless.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!……true but only wen the guys are ready 2be settled down.
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed by you or he’s criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!
97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them IF they are serious in your relationships.

After read this, i keep asking to myself, "Is it true?". Pertanyaan yg bodoh. Haha. Most point's actually happened. Dan gw menyadari kalo selama ini gw yang salah. Well.

Oke, sekarang saatnya mengetahui beberapa fakta mengenai cewek. Gw browsing di mbah gugle dan hasilnya seperti berikut: *yang gw masukin disini cuma yg sesuai sama pikiran gw*


1. I will leave if you lie.
2. I love it when you hug me from behind and whisper in my ear.
3. "Fine" is never an appropriate response when I ask you how I look.
4. Most of the time when I fantasize, it's about you.
5. I'm terrified of becoming my mother, even though I admire her.
6. I get turned on simply seeing that I have an e-mail / message from you.
7. I expect you to call me.
8. I'm scared of losing my independence.
9. I'm more forgiving of you than I really should be.
10. You did something bad. I seem cool with it. I'm not. (See directly above.)
11. When I compare my flabby tummy to a kangaroo pouch, say nothing.
12. You should never tell me what to do.
13. If I slept over, you owe me breakfast.
14. If you ask me out directly, I will say yes.
15. I'm very impressed when you ask for my advice.
16. I'm unimpressed with a man who doesn't take the lead.
17. I'm in heaven when you hold my hand.
18. You're sexy when you're shaving, fixing things, wearing a white T-shirt and jeans, driving, eating a peach, holding a baby.
19. I need to hear how you feel about me. Often. Tell me now.
20. Surprises, especially gifts for moi = more loving.
21. I want to be the best thing that ever happened to you--and for you to recognize this.
22. If I'm not feeling loved, I will start looking....
23. Discussion of ex-gf's and ex-bf's should be avoided at all times.
24. I like it when you tell me what you're thinking, even if you don't know yourself.
25. Celebrating our anniversary, even if it's only been a few months, earns major bonus points.
26. I love it when you're sweaty.
27. It's best to consult your gal pals for gift ideas.
28. A lady should always be greeted with kisses.
29. It's cheating as soon as you're doing something with her that you wouldn't want me to see, hear, read...
30. For the record: I'd rather you break up with me than cheat.
31. I remember everything about our relationship.
32. You should know all this and more with-out my telling you.
33. Always makes me feel loved.
34. I want you to put your arm around me at the theater.
35. Fighting and swearing doesn’t impress me.
36. I don’t always look my best, so please, get over it…
37. I'm not perfect.
38. When you say I'm cold it’s my invitation to come closer.
39. Hugs mean more sometimes.
40. Kiss me in the rain.
41. Being called beautiful makes me melt.
42. Hold my hand and hug me in front of your friends.
43. Never force me to do something I don’t want to do.
44. If I'm upset, comfort me.
45. I love it when you cuddle me from behind.
46. Text me at night to wish me sweet dreams.
47. Sometimes I need your advice too.
48. Don't say you understand when you don't.
49. Girls are petty; get over it. We like to start fights.
50. You don't have PMS, so don't act like you know what it's like. Don't try to understand...believe me you never will.
51. Saying something sweet might get you off the hook; doing something sweet will always get you off the hook.
52. We don't like it when you act like Mr. Big.
53. It's good to be sensitive sometimes.
54. If you did something wrong or even if you didn't, apologize.
55. Be spontaneous; dinner and a movie won't always cut it, but it is extremely sweet.
56. We are self-conscious by nature; we can't help it.
57. We are Drama queens; never forget that.
58. We absolutely DO NOT care about monster trucks, car systems, paintball, or anything else you and your friends talk about.
59. Hugs and kisses must be given at all times.
60. We don't shave our legs everyday: get over it.
61. Don't make bets about us; we always find out; you may think we don't know, but WE DO!
62. Shave! No matter how cool you think your goatee or beard or mustache looks, we hate it. We like clean-cut men.
63. Even if you think it is cool to burp, fart, or emit other strange gases from your body, it is not.
64. We are beautiful at all times.
65. We will always think we are fat, so humor us and tell us we aren't.
66. Most importantly: we are always right in one way or another so don't forget that!
67. Understand how to keep women happy with you...
68. Girls are pretty, but yours is the Prettiest!
69. DON'T CHEAT ON THEM OR DO SOMETHING MEAN TO THEIR FRIENDS. It may seem foolproof, but girls tell each other everything about everything. Trust me, they WILL find out and you will be mud.
70. If I slap you hard, you deserved it.
71. Don't be afraid to touch girls if you want to. If they're with you in the first place, it's because they like being in your arms.
72. You can be affectionate minded in private, really...most of them are not offended by it...
73. Most of them don't mind paying half of everything, but they do discuss these things with their friends. Realize that if you make her pay half all the time, everyone will know about it and your friends will know you're a cheapskate..
74. Make sure she gets home safely as often as you can. If you're dropping her off, walk her to the door. If you aren't dropping her off, call to be sure she's home safely.
75. If a guy is bothering her, it is your right to beat the crap out of him.
76. If you're talking to a female friend of yours, pull your wife closer.
77. Never, ever slap her, even if it's just in a joking way. Even if she swats you first, and says, "Oh, you're so dumb" or something, never make any gestures back.
78. Go to a chick flick once in a while. She doesn't care whether you enjoy it or not, it just matters that you went.
79. You're dead meat if you can't get along with their pets, parents, and best friends. Be prince charming to their friends, Mr. Polite to their parents, and make sure to be nice to their animals.
80. Don't flirt with their moms...that's just freaky.
81. Don't be freaked out by PMS. It's not gross, and it really does make them feel like pooh, so be understanding.
82. If you're officially engaged, and you're introducing her to your friends, you'd better damn well introduce her as your fiance.
83. Don't stress where you go for every date. They really only want to be with you.
84. If they complain that something hurts, rub it for them without being asked.
85. Girls are fragile. Even if you're play fighting/wrestling, be very gentle.
86. Memorize their god damn birthdays. You forget her birthday and you're basically screwed for life.
87. Don't marinade the cologne, but smell good.
88. Don't give her something stupid for her birthday or Eid or Valentine's day. It doesn't have to be expensive, but it has to be meaningful. Jewelry is always nice.
89. If you think the relationship isn't going to last, don't wait to find out. It will only hurt you more if you draw it out.
90. After you've been talking for a while, realize that they really have started to trust you. When you have someone who truly trusts you, you have a lot more responsibility, privilege and control than you would think. Be careful with it, most guys would kill for that kind of power, and it can be lost in a nanosecond.
91. An appliance, nintendo wii, power tools is not a gift for her.
92. Buying flowers does not require an occassion.
93. Insulting her friends or family is insulting her.
94. Making dinner, soup or tea for her does not make you less of a man.
95. When you go to a sisters house the first time, make sure you bring something. Yes, you'll be judged.
96. A little bit of jealousy is OK, but don't get crazy.
97. Diapers are not just a woman's job.
98. When a woman talks to you about things, they are not always looking for a solution, sometimes they just want to talk and have someone be supportive.
99. Being warm, gentle and loving, and romantic, even shy is not an unmasculine thing.
100. A woman is just as capable of fixing a car, faulty plumbing or removing a bug as you are, they just like it better if you do it.
101. Housework should be shared.
102. Respect each other's right to privacy, time and space. Too much togetherness can create problems as well.
103. This is how we see it . . . Don't call = Don't Care.
104. Which also means that if we don't call, take the hint.
105. Return favors: we massage, you massage; we go down, you go down; we shave, you shave (and not just your face).
106. We're allowed to be late . . . you are not.
107. Eye contact is key.
108. Don't take longer to get ready than we do.
109. Laugh at our jokes.
110. If you ask nicely, we usually answer the same way.
111. Open the door for us no matter where we are . . . even at our house and getting into the car.
112. We love surprises!
113. Pay attention to the little things we do, because they mean the most.
114. Even though you are sometimes insensitive and hurt us, we still love you with everything we are.
115. Sometimes even when you think we hate you, we don't, we just want you to apologize so we can be allowed to love you again
116. Sometimes "NO!" really means "NO!"
117. Just because a girl doesn't pick up on the first ring doesn't mean she's not waiting by the phone.
118. We like late night conversations and text messages.
119. We tell you how we feel, so why not tell us how you feel?
120. Girls build up walls around themself just to see which boy is brave enough to climb over it.
121. We're really not complicated.
122. Just tell a girl that you like her, don't make her all crazy about it, be honest and open.
123. When trying to do something nice for her, she doesnt care that its not totally awesome, she just cares if you tried your best. (But if you forget our birthday,
your a deadman)
124. Girls want to talk to guys on the phone, we like when you call us & when you
say cute things, like you're beautiful or just want to know how our day was. Sometimes we just want to hear your voice.
125. We read alot into things since we care alot, so watch what you say.
126. When you notice a girl is trying to hint that she likes you and you feel the same...THEN DO SOMETHING!!!!
127. When girls are angry at something other than you, give them a hug and listen to them!!
128. Make the first move no matter how shy are. Girls shouldn't feel pressure to talk to the guy first.
129. We need a guy we can rely on. One who keeps his word and backs up what he says with actions.
130. We like it when you tell us your true feelings, and are really straight forward with us.
131. The key to our hearts is being able to make us laugh :)
132. Don't believe everything she says, its not always what she means.
133. We melt inside if we start to say something and you look at us with a smile that tells us to keep talking and you care about what we have on our mind.
134. We think its cute when you mess up when you're trying to compliment us.
135. Girls get jealous very easily.
136. We can't think of a better way to spend an evening than laying on your chest, under the stars.
137. If a girl is flirting or talking to everyone except you, she likes you.
138. Girls are highly emotional, so their guy should always take care of them and make her feel safe with them.
139. We have feelings and we have no idea about boys, all the information we have we get from friends and what other people say, so some things need to be cleared up.
140. Girls love guys that we can be ourself around, and when you can be yourself around us.
141. Girls like guys who can be confident in themselves and know what they want.
142. Girls just want a guy to protect them and love them and make them happy and be that best friend to them.
143. Girls like it when guys try their hardest, not trying to be tough and stupid.
144. Most girls can't fall asleep at night because they are thinking about a certain boy.
145. Girls love it when a guy wraps their arms around their waist.
146. Don't ever ignore us!! We hate when guys play hard to get.
147. We like when a guy gives us his jacket, even when he is cold.
148. We love it when guys notice the little things we do for them.
149. When a girl feels like she is annoying you by talking about something, tells us it's ok and you understand we just want to get it out.
150. Actions are stronger than words, so instead of telling us you love us, show us.

Woaa, sudah 150 rupanya. Tapi masih ada lagi...

151. Stay on the phone with her even if shes not saying anything.
152. When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go.
153. When she says she's ok dont believe it, talk with her.
154. Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her.
155. Call her before you sleep and after you wake up
156. Treat her like she's all that matters to you.
157. Tease her and let her tease you back.
158. Stay up all night with her when she's sick.
159. Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think its stupid.
160. Give her the world.
161. Let her know she's important.
162. leave us cute text/notes, especially when we are upset, this shows us that you really care about you and how we feel.
163. tell us we look beautiful, we sometimes really feel down on ourselves and just need someone to say to us that we look beautiful. We really like it if you do.
164. Girls like to hold hands with guys when they are walking together.
165. Girls like it when guys put their arm around them. It makes them feel loved and wanted. But don't do it when you are walking, because then its awkward. If you are standing somewhere or sitting down, put your arm around them.
166. If you are in a group of other girls with your girlfriend, make it seem like she is the only one you are interested in talking to.
167. Pay attention to them. Girls will tell a guy they trust anything. Even if you don't care about what shes saying, at least pretend to be paying attention.
168. If a girl is clearly upset, don't ignore it and hope it goes away, talk to her and ask her about it . If she says " Nothing, i'm fine," but its obvious shes not, don't just say okay.. keep asking because that's what they want. They will tell you if they love you.
169. Girls will tell guys they love anything, so don't betray that trust. If they tell you something and they say don't tell anyone, don't. Or else you will lose that trust . And even if they don't say " Don't tell anyone," still, just don't.
170. Girls don't take fighting very well. They either get really sad.. or they get pissed and get bitchy. So, don't start fights.
171. Girls like hugging guys for a long time , If she doesn't pull away from the hug, it means she wants to stay like that for a bit, so don't rush. You should enjoy it too.
172. It’s hard for a girl to admit she likes you. So when she does, don’t act grossed out.
173. If we hang up on you, call back. If we continue, then you continue.
174. When we say we love you, 100% of the time, we mean it with all of our hearts, and want you to mean it to.
175. You must tell a girl that you are courting her. Unless you make an obvious proposal, she could either play numb or be really numb of your feelings for her.
176. A girl’s decision is always changeable.
177. Girls hate it when you make them wait.
178. Girls can keep their deepest darkest secrets for a lifetime unlike guys who are very open about themselves.
179. You should let her cool first before you say sorry, otherwise she won’t accept your apology.
180. Girls easily cry. That is why they are rarely violent because they ventilate themselves through crying.
181. Girls love gentlemen.
182. If a girl says "no," believe her. If a girl really likes you, she wouldn’t give you a "no." She’ll give you hanging messages instead.
183. Girls also stammer when they’re talking to the guy they truly admire.
184. Girls mature faster and grow older than guys their same age.
185. It’s hard for a girl to recover from her past.
186. A girls prefers to learn about relationships from novels than through experience.
187. A girl can easily forgive you if you are sincere with your apology.
188. A girl can make you wait for years in courting her but could eventually give you a "no" in the long run.
189. It is not always because she said "yes" that she likes or love you. She could have just said it for superficial reasons.
190. A girl loves talking all alone with the guy she’s truly in love with especially in romantic and isolated places.
191. Girls love guys who can bear with what they feel.
192. Girls like guys with sense of humor.
193. Take a close look at this paradox: Girls are generally impulsive buyers but are good in budgeting.
194. It is really hard to trace why girls are unpredictable.
You would know that a girl likes you if she laughs even at your corniest joke and even pays attention at your nonsense talk.
195. It is a fact that girls, since the brith of the world, can be professional flirts using their magical charms.
196. Beware: a girl knows how to persuade you that you could do her a
favor through her charisma or seductive body language without you knowing it.
196. Girls are flattered when you make them melt in your eyes, but they would do anything just to show disapproval.
197. Girls like smart guys.
198. Girls like neat and presentable guys.
199. Girls are the ones who can make a relationship stay longer but they don’t want to have the dominating character over their boyfriend.
200. Girls are physically weaker than guys but are emotionally stronger when problems arise.

Whoaaa total 200! Banyak banget ya. Hehehe. Namanya juga mengumpulkan dari berbagai sumber.

Beberapa poin punya cewek bertentangan dgn punya cowok. Hmmm, susah juga ya. Yg cowok maunya gini, yg cewek maunya gini.
Tapi gw rasa pertentangan2 itu justru jadi nilai plus yg membuat cowok-cewek bisa saling melengkapi ^_____^

Bagaimana menurutmu?

Yellow!
Akhirnya-low gw-low dapet-low mood-low buat-low posting-low lagi-low!
Pasti kalian pusing pas ngebaca kalimat-low di atas. Sama, gw juga puyeng ngetiknya. Hahahahaha...

Oke, gw yang sekarang lagi pusing.
Pusing sama iklan GEJE sang operator tercinta yang banyak promonya tapi kalo dihitung-hitung tetep aja mahal. Ya itu contohnya, slogan 'yellow' bla bla bla...
Pusing juga sama cuaca Jakarta yang makin lama makin aneh. Hujan melulu tiap hari. *ya iyalah, orang udah masuk musim hujan*
Datangnya musim hujan mengingatkan gw pada memori setahun yang lalu... dimana beberapa kali gw mesti ke kampus pake sendal jepit karena terpaksa menerobos banjir yang menggenang di jalanan komplek rumah. Haihhhhhhhhhh capede... *lebay*

Semakin dikenang, jadi sadar kalo waktu itu berlalu dengan sangat cepat. Setahun yang lalu, gw masih semester 1, anak kuliahan cupu yg menantang kejamnya dunia IT. Kalo dibandingin sama gw yang sekarang? Ga jauh beda sih. Hihihi..

Ah, sekarang yg gw pikirin, semoga rasa pusing ini cepat berlalu. Semoga ke depannya gw bisa selamat dari para kaum penyiksa IT *baca: matkul yg makin menjelimet dan kawan-kawan*
I hope.

See you then! *kapan2 posting lagi :P*